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An In Depth Review of “Sex God Method” by Daniel Rose

Dodger — Sat, 10 Jul 2010 16:37:13 +0000

Today, I am reviewing a book called Sex God Method by Daniel Rose. If that names sounds familiar it may be because Dan is speaking at the Orlando convention this year.

This is not a book about picking up girls. This is also not a book about seducing women. This book assumes you can get into the bedroom on your own. This book is about sex. For those of you who don’t know or don’t yet realize, sex is one of the most important parts of any relationship. If you look at top complaints of people in relationships, then sex will always appear in some form on the list. Either they aren’t getting enough, or they don’t like what they are getting. If you aren’t sexually satisfying your partner, then he/she will find someone that can get the job done. That is just the unfortunate and cold fact of it. Bad sex is an infection that will always eventually destroy any relationship. Simply put, if the sex is bad, then why would she be anything other than just a friend?

That said, being good in bed is an incredible asset. Part of the reason I have so much confidence when I approach girls is because I know I can make her toes curl while tumbling between my sheets later. If I didn’t know that I could satisfy her it would make me doubt myself and what I was able to bring to the table.

I am a big fan of the approach this book takes to sex. Many books on sex are filled out with charts of sex positions and/or precise detail about hand position. This often just makes sex worse. You end up inside you head turning sex into something like a doctors visit. If you need to consult a diagram mid thrust, then its a bad book. Sex God Method isn’t that kind of book. It focuses mostly on the mental aspects of sex, and how women react to our actions in the bedroom. This book focuses on the psychological arousal of women.

Daniel’s approach to sex breaks down into four essential components: Dominance, Emotion, Variation, and Immersion. I won’t ruin the book by going into detail here, but what he puts into each section is a well thought out explanation of how each of these elements can be evoked in the bedroom. When in harmony they lead to great sex.

The book goes much farther than that though. It is fairly comprehensive. It has solid advice from anal sex to helping a girl through her first time. It covers fantasies also. For those of you who haven’t read Nancy Friday’s My Secret Garden, women fantasize more often and in far more complex ways then men do. This is an essential section that covers bringing these up with your girl. Daniel also has explanations about setting up open relationships. He discusses stagnation in long-term relationships, and suggests a myriad of ways to keep things fresh. He even has a section about losing your virginity, and in retrospect, most of us could have used the advice then even more.

This book really hits the nail on the head. There is a lot of solid advice to be taken away purely from a practical perspective. However, the underlying message of this book is really the part that I like the most. Firstly sex is not something a woman gives you as a reward. In “the community”, we often treat it that way, and that’s a mistake.

Secondly, women enjoy sex way more than men. This is precisely the opposite of a lot of the garbage that we are fed growing up. Finally, you should never at any point be judgmental of your girlfriend in the bed room. If she starts to believe that her sexuality is causing you to have a negative view of her, then you aren’t going to get her to open up to you sexually.

The advice is correct, and effective. If you are looking to improve your skills in bed, this is the best book you can buy. There is no substitute for practice, but this book will tell you everything you need to know about sex. Maybe not everything you want to know, but everything necessary to make the next girl you sleep with a definite repeat visitor.

If you aren’t satisfying your girl, you should buy this book. Plain and simple. Its some of the best sex advice I have ever read. Its not hard to be a great lover. Its takes practice though, but that’s really the best part.

Let me mention the VIP bonus content. There is a ton of it. Dozens of videos and articles that go into even further detail. I wish I had time to go over the entire site, but there is just far to much information. The site has some of the more technical sides of sex, which is fine as long as you keep in mind the lessons from the book. I did sit down and watch and read several of the articles, and Dan’s advice remains as consistently spot on as the book. The content is also updated regularly with new information. Joining the VIP program will also net you access to monthly tele-seminars where you can talk to Dan directly and ask whatever questions that might still plague you. This really adds a great deal of long term value to the product. If I had another couple weeks and a lot of free time, then I could probably finish it all.

Overall, I endorse this product. The price of the e-book is only about $40, which is a fairly reasonable price compared to some similar products. The VIP access costs another 8 dollars a month. The ability to get ask Dan questions directly is worth the cost alone. You are enrolled in it automatically, but it can be canceled at anytime. Give it a shot for at least the first month, because you are going to want to access to all the bonus material, which may even be more information than the book itself.

RATING 4 out of 5 Stars

If you like the book, then make sure to come see Dan and the rest of us at The 21 Convention of Orlando Florida this July. To find out more and purchase the book click the image below.

Become a “Triple Threat”

Anthony 'Dream' Johnson — Tue, 27 Oct 2009 09:00:46 +0000

Threat one: Lifestyle

Your lifestyle has so much to do with who will be attracted to you. If you are a fun, social, outgoing guy with good people skills you will attract fun, social women who like to go out. Push yourself to become more friendly cool (not clingy creepy) and draw more folks into your sphere of influence.

What can you do today to expand your social circle and improve your friendships?

Send a text to your buddy.
Check in with new friends.
Make definite plans to hangout together.

Threat two: Sex

Someone posed this question to me a year ago: “How do you find girls like sex? in other words whats the best way to sex them up”

Here’s my experience:

Women like sex with guys they like.
Women enjoy sex with guys they like who know how get them off.
Women will hang on to guys that are lackluster in the sack as long as they like him outside the bedroom.
Women will chase and sponsor guys they like who know how to get them off

The best way I have found to bang her (so that I get invited back) is the way that gives her an orgasm. Find out what gets her off and then decide if you like doing that. Find out if she likes doing what gets you off. It’s called sexual compatibility.

Sometimes the situation calls for foreplay. Sometimes the situation calls for fast action. There is an almost infinite combination of foreplay, positions, and sexual acts. Your confidence is the ultimate aphrodisiac for her.

Threat three: Intrigue

Here’s a real life example…

1) I met this woman and we exchanged phone numbers after the first encounter. Two days later I had a 20 minutes conversation with her.

2) I did not text her or call her incessantly after that.

3) Three weeks after that, I saw her in a bar and suggested we go bounce somewhere private. She agreed but we failed to connect later that night. No nookie.

4) I did not call her or text her incessantly.

5) She admitted that she was “playing hard to get” aka trying to get me to chase. She said, “but you didn’t bite.”

The alternate course of action, which I would have taken early in my dating development, would have been to call her, text her, try to bait her with some clever line or conversation. If you can grasp this concept, you will take the tunnel through the mountain instead of the long, winding trail around the mountain.

Why did I not care to chase her? Because I have a lot of other options with women. Sure I wanted to eventually have sex with her, but I wasn’t worried or obsessed with it happening. Women can sense this in you. You should employ this approach, my friend.

I see “need/obsession” in a lot of guys when I go out to clubs. Women want you to chase them. They want the power position. My philosophy is to keep the power to myself.

I quote my very good friend on this, “Attraction is not a choice neither can it be forced.” If it’s there, you can let it simmer. By not chasing this girl, I retained my status as a desirable prize to her. If the attraction isn’t there, drop her and go talk to other women.

Eventually I ran into her again out with friends, we both knew it was on for an after-party. She still tried to get me to chase her, “I can’t have sex with you here (in my friend’s house… with my friends around).” Of course she knew what we both wanted, but I was not desperate. I crawled into a bed alone around 4am, she joined me a few minutes later. This indifference is a powerful tool on a woman’s psyche. Compared to the option of begging or trying to force it; I choose intriguing indifference.

Be a triple threat and see how women respond. You might get more than you can handle.

-RHM

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Libido T21C 2008

Anthony 'Dream' Johnson — Fri, 09 Oct 2009 19:00:27 +0000

Libidoescape from The 21 Convention 2007 briefly takes the stage in 2008 due to scheduling issues to speak about sex and relationships. He was fresh off one hell of a night, but gave it his best in the time allotted.

See his full 2007 speech for some really solid content!

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Libido T21C 2007

Anthony 'Dream' Johnson — Mon, 11 May 2009 22:44:20 +0000

Libidoescape speaks here about sex, “peacocking”, relationships, multiple long term relationships- and more. Libido spoke for free at The 21 Convention 2007 and had no commercial interest.

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