Starting off as an attendee of The 21 Convention in 2008, Francis Adams returned in 2009 as an official T21C speaker, representing The Social Man with Nick Sparks and Christian Hudson.

In 2010, Francis once again returned to The 21 Convention alongside Nick Sparks to give his definitive presentation titled “The Little Things That Make a Big Difference”.

Francis currently works as an executive coach with The Social Man and lives in Madison, Wisconsin.

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About Nick Sparks (source)

Everything happens for a reason.

I learned this lesson at a fairly early age. My high school years were spent honing my social skills, and by my freshman year in college I’ll admit they were good. I really had no problem making friends and always exhibited a flair for performing that continues to this very day. The kink in my armor, however, was the fact that I still hadn’t figured out women.

Those first two years of college, my romantic experiences (which were never very consistent) consisted of the occasional night where I was a bit tipsy at a party, found a girl who was equally tipsy, and somehow manage to not screw anything up. It was after that 2nd year that luckily, fate interceded.

Editor’s Note: Check out Nick Spark’s FEARLESS

I didn’t know what was about to hit me. All I knew was that it was May after my sophomore year, I couldn’t go back home for another summer, and I had to find a sublet. Luckily my friend Katie had a room for me to rent in her sorority and would vouch for me to take it for the summer.

Ask any guy if he wants to drive an F1 race car and of course he’ll say yes. If that same guy is tossed the keys and told to get behind the wheel, unless he was an F1 driver, he’d probably have a bit more trepidation. That was my feeling moving in that week. Of course I was excited to be surrounded by beautiful women all the time, but I was definitely not used to living with more women than my mom and sister and wasn’t sure what would happen.

Luckily I had my social skills to fall back on. That spring I started building friendships with the girls in the house who were still in town, and by the time that the full heat of the summer was upon us, I was comfortable in my new home.

I quickly got a firsthand look at the conversations that girls were having about boys. Additionally, I would get to meet all of the guys that were hooking up with the girls in the house, and I soon became friends with the cooler ones. It could not have been a more perfect storm. I got bombarded with the full wonder that is the female mind and also got front row seats to watch how guys who were good with women thought and acted.

By fall, everything was different. My group of guys, which now included several of the guys I met that summer, was one of the “top” groups of guys on campus and I was dating several of the more attractive girls on campus, including a couple of my former housemates. My friends who had been absent that summer noticed the difference and began asking for advice. I became the unofficial “coach” of the group and as they started telling their friends about me, I built up a small reputation as the guy to come to for dating advice for both men and women.

Fast-forward 4 years and a million stories later and I’m working in sales as a mortgage banker for a top company in Michigan, while still being summoned for dating advice in my downtime. While sitting in my cubicle one evening, I get a call from a friend who tells me about a book called “The Game”, and suggests that I can actually make a living doing what I had loved doing for the past 4 years.

In what felt like a whirlwind, I started my first blog and started offering my coaching services to the public. Fueled by good reviews, I packed up for what I thought would be a considerable stay in Chicago. During that time, Christian Hudson, an acquaintance from college, was just starting The Social Man and caught wind of some of the reviews coming out of Chicago. He invited me to come out to New York to do some work with him, and 6 months after unpacking my life in the windy city I was once again on the move to Manhattan- and the rest is history.

Everything happens for a reason. Some men were born to rap. Some men were born to program. I am lucky enough to be able to share my accumulated knowledge to help other men achieve social and dating lives that they want for themselves. No man is naturally good with women, but we all can be the moment we make the decision to get this handled.

– Nick Sparks

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This is the final part of my interview with Nick Sparks- if you missed it, check out part 1 here, and part 2 here. This guy has some serious effing content to share!

6. Can you tell us more about your recent video product, Unbreakable (which I have viewed myself and think is totally awesome)?

As much as I’d like to be able to take more credit for Unbreakable, this project has really always been the brain-child of Christian Hudson.

My involvement was mainly just the hours we’d talk about all of this stuff and bounce ideas off of each other, and of course the filming, however this project really came from the breakthroughs and discoveries that Christian has developed – and the structure of the entire thing is 100% his handiwork.

What it is, essentially the step by step, how to guide to developing a core of strength within yourself. Although there are a literal shit-ton of specific tips, the greater focus is in building a strong social foundation in yourself that naturally allows everything else to come from it – and then goes into even more detail on how to make those things happen.

The one thing about this program is that it’s thick/dense – a sort of owners manual. Because of this, I put together Ignite Your Night which serves a a quick start guide that quickly incorporates a lot of the ideas from Unbreakable into a solid specific game-plan you can take into a venue on any given night. This, and a couple extra bonuses are included with Unbreakable for no extra cost.

It was very important to us that everyone could afford it, hence the low price point which pleasantly surprised a lot of people. Plus the reviews have been excessively positive on our forum.

All in all we really couldn’t have been much happier with the way everything has gone.

7. Upcoming plans or projects you can hint us in on?

Well, our biggest news as of late has been Martina, our newest member and coach. She’s been working with me over the past couple bootcamps we’ve done, has learned a bit about how we do things, and has also contributed a brilliant female perspective which sharpens up what I teach.

Plus the guys that she’s worked with already have been adamant about how much they enjoyed having her so we couldn’t help but keep her around. You can expect to see her on all of our bootcamps in the future and we’re lucky to have her!

Other than that, we’re restructuring our Platinum Program as a residential program, so that’s exciting for us – more info coming on that in the near future – and once we fine tune everything else we’re doing, (building up the forum, polishing up The Good Life, etc.) we can begin working on our future programs, “The Superpowers” & “Connection” feat.

The Conversation Domination Technique; (working titles) which focuses on intense flirting and conversation mastery, respectively.

We feel that year one was a very positive year for us and we only look forward to continuing and strengthening that in year two.

We couldn’t have done any of it without all of the guys who have supported us from our earliest days, a big thank you to them – and we look forward to spreading the word even farther in 2010.

Cheers

Nick, I gotta say man, that was one hell of an interview.  You spoke about quite a few things that most coaches aren’t even informed about, let alone have a deep understanding of. Thanks again for speaking in 2009 and best of luck to you and Christian with The Social Man. Sounds like you guys have your work cut out for you . Look forward to hanging out again next summer

Thanks for checking out the interviews guys!

-Dream

About Nick Sparks (source)

Everything happens for a reason.

I learned this lesson at a fairly early age. My high school years were spent honing my social skills, and by my freshman year in college I’ll admit they were good. I really had no problem making friends and always exhibited a flair for performing that continues to this very day. The kink in my armor, however, was the fact that I still hadn’t figured out women.

Those first two years of college, my romantic experiences (which were never very consistent) consisted of the occasional night where I was a bit tipsy at a party, found a girl who was equally tipsy, and somehow manage to not screw anything up. It was after that 2nd year that luckily, fate interceded.

Editor’s Note: Check out Nick Spark’s FEARLESS

I didn’t know what was about to hit me. All I knew was that it was May after my sophomore year, I couldn’t go back home for another summer, and I had to find a sublet. Luckily my friend Katie had a room for me to rent in her sorority and would vouch for me to take it for the summer.

Ask any guy if he wants to drive an F1 race car and of course he’ll say yes. If that same guy is tossed the keys and told to get behind the wheel, unless he was an F1 driver, he’d probably have a bit more trepidation. That was my feeling moving in that week. Of course I was excited to be surrounded by beautiful women all the time, but I was definitely not used to living with more women than my mom and sister and wasn’t sure what would happen.

Luckily I had my social skills to fall back on. That spring I started building friendships with the girls in the house who were still in town, and by the time that the full heat of the summer was upon us, I was comfortable in my new home.

I quickly got a firsthand look at the conversations that girls were having about boys. Additionally, I would get to meet all of the guys that were hooking up with the girls in the house, and I soon became friends with the cooler ones. It could not have been a more perfect storm. I got bombarded with the full wonder that is the female mind and also got front row seats to watch how guys who were good with women thought and acted.

By fall, everything was different. My group of guys, which now included several of the guys I met that summer, was one of the “top” groups of guys on campus and I was dating several of the more attractive girls on campus, including a couple of my former housemates. My friends who had been absent that summer noticed the difference and began asking for advice. I became the unofficial “coach” of the group and as they started telling their friends about me, I built up a small reputation as the guy to come to for dating advice for both men and women.

Fast-forward 4 years and a million stories later and I’m working in sales as a mortgage banker for a top company in Michigan, while still being summoned for dating advice in my downtime. While sitting in my cubicle one evening, I get a call from a friend who tells me about a book called “The Game”, and suggests that I can actually make a living doing what I had loved doing for the past 4 years.

In what felt like a whirlwind, I started my first blog and started offering my coaching services to the public. Fueled by good reviews, I packed up for what I thought would be a considerable stay in Chicago. During that time, Christian Hudson, an acquaintance from college, was just starting The Social Man and caught wind of some of the reviews coming out of Chicago. He invited me to come out to New York to do some work with him, and 6 months after unpacking my life in the windy city I was once again on the move to Manhattan- and the rest is history.

Everything happens for a reason. Some men were born to rap. Some men were born to program. I am lucky enough to be able to share my accumulated knowledge to help other men achieve social and dating lives that they want for themselves. No man is naturally good with women, but we all can be the moment we make the decision to get this handled.

– Nick Sparks

• Visit Nick at TheSocialMan.com and learn how to be confident
• Check out Nick Spark’sFEARLESS
• Follow Nick on Facebook
• Like The Social Man on Facebook

Francis Adams is the author of the Campus Casanova blog, and has coached in association with Nick Sparks and Christian Hudson of The Social Man.

In this Video, Francis Speaks On:

• Why College Girls Want to Hook Up
• What Pick Up Artist Mentalities Don’t Apply In College
• How to Bring Value to a Party
• How to Master the “Typical College Conversation”
• The Five Rules of Social Circles
• Why To Fall In Love With Every Girl

Visit Francis Adams at FrancisAdams.wordpress.com.

If you are interested in learning more about college game Francis recommends  checking out Conquer Your Campus.

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Former rival turned friend of Dream- Dodger “Hshudo” Clemons  has been hailed as the world’s “best under 21 pickup artist”. At the tender age of 20 he spends much of his time fighting off hordes of women on his college campus in Tennessee (just kidding, he sleeps with them).

In This Video, Dodger Clemons Speaks On:

• How to Change Your Reaction to Beautiful Women
• The Truth About Rejection
• Winging in College
• How to Escalate in College
• Why Intention is Everything
• Routines to Use in College

Other Posts Featuring Dodger Clemons:

• An Article By Dodger on How to Have Awesome Dates.
• An Article By Dodger on Dealing With Rejection.
• An Article By Dodger on Standards and Screening.

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Nick “Braddock” is the lead instructor for Love Systems, and can be seen on the Tyra Banks Show.

In This Video, Nick Speaks On:

• How To Become The Guy Who Know’s Everybody
• Being a PUA vs. Being a Cool Guy
• DHV Stories vs. Actually Demonstrating High Values
• The Hotness Waterfall for Getting Every Girl on Campus
• How to Generate Buzz that Creates Huge Attraction Before You Ever Meet a Girl
• How to Wing in College

You can visit Braddock at BraddocksBlog.com

Other Posts Featuring Nick:

• An Article by Nick on Phone Numbers and Investment
• A Review of The Ultimate Guide to Text and Phone Game, a Product by Braddock

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