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	<title>Ideal Man &#124; The 21 Convention &#187; Anthony Dream Johnson</title>
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		<title>Qualification &amp; Showing Interest</title>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 02 Feb 2012 19:37:09 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anthony Dream Johnson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Psych set out to master the game and has made a rapid (yet incredibly difficult) transformation. Since entering the community, he has been ranked “best new pua” was a coach for the show MADE on MTV, has been a speaker at world wide self-improvement seminars, and has authored many articles, which include writing for Thundercat’s blog [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe width="700" height="394" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/cAlpHAGbsYs?fs=1&feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-7997" title="Jared Psych Laurence 2.0" src="http://www.the21convention.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/psych2011orlando-1024x589.jpg" alt="" width="309" height="178" /> Psych set out to master the game and has made a rapid (yet incredibly difficult) transformation. Since entering the community, he has been ranked “best new pua” was a coach for the show MADE on MTV, has been a speaker at world wide self-improvement seminars, and has authored many articles, which include writing for Thundercat’s blog and The Seduction Bible, has gained degrees in Pedagogy (the science of teaching) and is currently working on his Ph.D. in Psychology.</p>
<p>As an author, “21 Convention” speaker, and Psychology Ph.D. candidate, he has learned, practiced or winged with all the big seduction gurus. Psych has learned every theory and style out there, created a massive social circle filled with beautiful women, had a long lasting relationship that consisted of couple-sarging (picking-up women with your girlfriend), and has traveled the world coaching men.</p>
<p>His method involves an easy, free flowing structure based on classic psychology and the progression of pick-up, as well as a natural style someone can call their own. Social proof, self-amusement, interesting conversation, and the ability to get women having fun and enjoying his presence in any situation is what he feels “game” is all about.</p>
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<p>Psych uses teaching techniques and motivational tactics he learned while obtaining his degrees. A training session involves a relaxed, fun environment in which students obtain useful theory, which is then put into practice. After each approach, Psych goes over exactly what the student did right and wrong — allowing immediate improvement in the next set. His ability to break down a student’s interaction and find hidden sticking points is second to none.</p>
<p>However this wasn’t always the case. Throughout all of high school Psych was clueless when it came to women. The phone rarely rang for him. His passions included watching TV, reading comics, and spending every weekend playing the card game “Magic The Gathering”…by himself. But this all changed once he found the “community”. Now he’s ready to share all he’s learned with you.</p>
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		<title>Sexual Escalation</title>
		<link>http://www.the21convention.com/2012/01/30/sexual-escalation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 31 Jan 2012 01:44:06 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anthony Dream Johnson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Psych set out to master the game and has made a rapid (yet incredibly difficult) transformation. Since entering the community, he has been ranked “best new pua” was a coach for the show MADE on MTV, has been a speaker at world wide self-improvement seminars, and has authored many articles, which include writing for Thundercat’s [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe width="700" height="394" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/IzO3NGU1Bgo?fs=1&feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-7991" title="Jared Psych Laurence" src="http://www.the21convention.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/psych-2011-london-1024x642.jpg" alt="" width="301" height="189" />Psych set out to master the game and has made a rapid (yet incredibly difficult) transformation. Since entering the community, he has been ranked “best new pua” was a coach for the show MADE on MTV, has been a speaker at world wide self-improvement seminars, and has authored many articles, which include writing for Thundercat’s blog and The Seduction Bible, has gained degrees in Pedagogy (the science of teaching) and is currently working on his Ph.D. in Psychology.</p>
<p>As an author, “21 Convention” speaker, and Psychology Ph.D. candidate, he has learned, practiced or winged with all the big seduction gurus. Psych has learned every theory and style out there, created a massive social circle filled with beautiful women, had a long lasting relationship that consisted of couple-sarging (picking-up women with your girlfriend), and has traveled the world coaching men.</p>
<p>His method involves an easy, free flowing structure based on classic psychology and the progression of pick-up, as well as a natural style someone can call their own. Social proof, self-amusement, interesting conversation, and the ability to get women having fun and enjoying his presence in any situation is what he feels “game” is all about.</p>
<p>Psych uses teaching techniques and motivational tactics he learned while obtaining his degrees. A training session involves a relaxed, fun environment in which students obtain useful theory, which is then put into practice. After each approach, Psych goes over exactly what the student did right and wrong — allowing immediate improvement in the next set. His ability to break down a student’s interaction and find hidden sticking points is second to none.</p>
<p>However this wasn’t always the case. Throughout all of high school Psych was clueless when it came to women. The phone rarely rang for him. His passions included watching TV, reading comics, and spending every weekend playing the card game “Magic The Gathering”…by himself. But this all changed once he found the “community”. Now he’s ready to share all he’s learned with you.</p>
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<li>View all <a href="http://www.the21convention.com/tag/psych/" target="_blank">Psych 21 Convention footage</a></li>
<li>Follow Psych on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=100000342999325" target="_blank">Facebook</a></li>
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		<title>My Philosophy of Exercise</title>
		<link>http://www.the21convention.com/2012/01/25/my-philosophy-of-exercise/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Jan 2012 17:37:56 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anthony Dream Johnson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is a guest post by 21 Convention speaker and world renowned exercise authority Drew Baye. Re-posted with permission from Baye.com. &#160; Maintaining your health and achieving and maintaining a high level of functional ability should be among your highest priorities. You only live once, and both how long you live and yourenjoyment of it are directly affected by [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<blockquote><p>This is a guest post by 21 Convention speaker and world renowned exercise authority <a href="http://www.the21convention.com/tag/drew-baye/" target="_blank">Drew Baye</a>. Re-posted with permission from Baye.com.</p></blockquote>
<p>&nbsp;<br />
Maintaining your health and achieving and maintaining a high level of functional ability should be among your highest priorities. <em>You only live once</em>, and both <em>how long</em> you live and your<em>enjoyment</em> of it are directly affected by your health, your physical capabilities and your appearance.</p>
<p>Proper exercise is a <em>requirement </em>for living the longest, happiest life possible. It is a<em> requirement</em>for self-actualization – realizing your full human potential and necessary for achieving the <em>ideal</em>of a sound mind in a sound body.</p>
<p>While many people have at least some awareness of the potential benefits of exercise relatively few fully realize its importance. I believe at least two of the main reasons for this are failure to associate a <em>lack</em> of exercise with the resulting physical consequences, and underestimation of human physical potential.</p>
<p>It is easier to make cause and effect associations when the cause is one of commission rather than omission and when the time between cause and effect is shorter. The consequences of a lack or omission of exercise are not immediately apparent and in some cases take years. Nautilus inventor Arthur Jones once explained during a seminar:</p>
<blockquote><p>“If I were to grab you by the throat, and choke off your air supply, it would immediately become apparent to you that oxygen is absolutely essential for life. If I were to lock you in a room with no water, after several hours, the degree of thirst you would experience would indicate to you that water is a requirement for life. If I were to lock you in that room with water, but no food, it would take a little longer, a matter of a couple of days, before you would be ravenously hungry, and there would be no question in your mind that food was absolutely essential for life. However, it often takes years before ones body begins to show the harm done by a lack of proper exercise.”</p></blockquote>
<p>&nbsp;<br />
&nbsp;<br />
In the long run, if nothing is done to prevent it, we gradually lose muscle as we age, becoming weaker and more frail and suffering other problems as a result such as decreased basal metabolic rate, decreased insulin sensitivity, increased body fat, decreased cardiovascular and metabolic capacity, increased blood pressure, osteoporosis, increased risk of falling due to reduction in speed and steadiness of movement, etc.</p>
<p>In the meanwhile, if you <em>do not</em> exercise you live with a level of functional ability and a physical appearance <em>far</em> below your potential. Compared to what you <em>can</em> and <em>should</em> be, you are weak, slow, and fragile. If you <em>do</em> exercise, properly, the improvements in strength, speed, durability, and overall health will allow you to do more, do it better, do it longer, and look good while you’re at it. I believe the average, untrained person grossly underestimates their potential, would be surprised at what they are capable of becoming with proper exercise.</p>
<p>Exercise is one of the most important things you can do to improve your life. It deserves the same serious consideration, attention to detail, and effort – both physical <em>and</em> mental – as any other major life goal or achievement of high value. It is not enough to just <em>do</em> exercise, you should strive  to <em>master</em> it.</p>
<p>You should perform every exercise and every workout in the safest, most effective, most efficient manner possible.</p>
<p><strong>Safety</strong></p>
<p>It <em>ought</em> to go without saying that exercise should performed in the <em>safest</em> manner possible, but considering the sloppy and haphazard form commonly displayed in gyms and the outright dangerous antics of Crossfit, plyometrics, “core stability training” and similar activities touted as exercise it is apparent most either aren’t aware of or underestimate the potential for injury and long term damage of improper training.</p>
<p>While <em>all</em> physical activity poses some risk of injury exercise <em>can</em> and <em>should</em> be performed in a manner and with a level of control which makes it safer than almost any other activity. It would be counterproductive and downright stupid to perform an activity for the purpose of physical improvement which simultaneously poses a significant risk of causing physical injury or undermining your long term functional ability and health.</p>
<p>This does <em>not</em> mean exercise should be easy. On the contrary, to be effective exercise<em>must</em> involve a high level of effort. There is no conflict between safety and intensity of effort during exercise, however; the manner of performance required to minimize risk of injury is the exact same required to maximize the quality of muscular loading and effectiveness.</p>
<p><strong>Effectiveness </strong></p>
<p>More than any other factor, exercise effectiveness is related to effort, and effort is maximized with proper form. Contrary to claims of some ignorant trainers that how you perform an exercise is less important than the effort you put into it, proper form and maximum effort are<em>not</em> mutually exclusive but <em>directly related</em>. The <em>better</em> your form the <em>higher</em> the intensity.</p>
<p>The histrionics and bodily contortions often associated with a high level of effort during training are <strong>not</strong> an indication of greater intensity; many trainees commit these discrepancies even when they are not actually working hard. They are attempts to reduce the difficulty of the exercise or distractions from the discomfort of hard work.</p>
<p>The person who grunts, grimaces, and makes a show of heaving or jerking to gain momentum and leaning this way and that to find a lever advantage during exercise is <strong>not</strong> the one training the hardest, but rather the person who remains <em>stoic</em> as the pain of effort increases, impassive and expressionless, focusing on intensely contracting the targeted muscles while maintaining strict control of the position and movement of their body.</p>
<p>Correct form during exercise involves positioning and or alignment of the body and a path, range and manner of movement designed to effectively load the muscles. Breaking or “loosening” form makes an exercise easier, not harder. Some trainers claim “loosening” form is advantageous because it allows more repetitions to be performed displaying their ignorance of the real objective of exercise.</p>
<p><strong>Efficiency</strong></p>
<p>Exercise is not an end in itself, but a means to improving your health and functional ability to better enjoy other activities and aspects of life. You should spend no more time exercising than necessary for best results. Doing so will <em>not</em> give you better results, but will take away from the finite amount of time you have to pursue other goals or  interests and enjoy the company of friends and family. Fortunately <em>very</em> little exercise is required <em>if performed properly and with a high level of effort</em>.</p>
<p>The only exercise you need – in fact the only activity that truly qualifies as exercise – is progressive resistance training. When performed <em>properly</em> it is the safest and most effective method of stimulating improvements in <em>all</em> trainable factors of fitness; muscular strength, size and endurance, cardiovascular and metabolic efficiency, flexibility, bone density and connective tissue strength, and body composition.</p>
<p><strong>The Standard</strong></p>
<p>There are other considerations, but these three – safety, effectiveness, and efficiency – are the highest priorities and the standard against which different methods should be compared if the ultimate purpose of exercise is to contribute to greater enjoyment of life.</p>
<p>There are a lot of training methods, programs, and modalities which can eventually maximize your strength and overall fitness and functional ability.</p>
<p><em>Any</em> strength training method performed with a relatively high level of effort, consistently, and progressively, and <em>any</em> program that addresses all the major muscle groups without exceeding a volume and frequency of work your body can recover from and adapt to <em>can</em> <em>eventually</em> get you about as strong and as muscular as your genetics will allow.</p>
<p><em>Any</em> physical activity or combination of activities performed with a relatively high level of effort, over a full range of joint motions, involving loads meaningful to the skeletal system, <em>can eventually </em>result in significant improvements in cardiovascular and metabolic conditioning, flexibility and bone density.</p>
<p><em>Any </em>modality that provides the ability to meaningfully and progressively load the muscles – free weights, machines, body weight, manual resistance, isometric stations, etc. – <em>can</em> be <em>effective</em> for this purpose if used correctly.</p>
<p>These things are often pointed out to avoid criticizing or making comparisons between methods, however in any objective comparison of different methods of achieving the same goal one will be <em>best</em>.</p>
<p>Your life, your health, and your time, are far too important to settle for just <em>any</em> training method, program, modality. Accept nothing less than the <em>best</em>.</p>
<p><strong>The Mission</strong></p>
<p>My mission is to promote this philosophy, of training in the safest, most effective, most efficient manner possible to maximize life-long health and functional ability with enjoyment of life as the standard, and to teach the best methods of achieving this.</p>
<p>This will be the purpose of this web site.</p>
<p>This refinement of philosophy and mission are why <em>Elements of Form</em> has been almost completely rewritten and rather than teach will expose the flaws of protocols like rest pause, negative-only, and the misuse of various unnecessary and counterproductive “advanced” techniques like forced reps, forced negatives, drop sets, etc. and why they have no place in a proper exercise program.</p>
<p>This is the reason I sought employment with Overload Fitness and membership in Renaissance Exercise, as they are the best in the field of exercise and represent true advancement in the art and science of exercise performance and instruction.</p>
<p>&#8211; Drew Baye</p>
<p>(<a href="http://baye.com/my-philosophy-of-exercise/" target="_blank">Original link</a>)</p>
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		<title>Sales, Business, &amp; Marketing</title>
		<link>http://www.the21convention.com/2012/01/21/sales-business-marketing/</link>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 21 Jan 2012 18:46:12 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anthony Dream Johnson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[About Steve Mayeda Five time speaker of The 21 Convention &#8220;I started training with gurus in the Pick Up community like Sinn and Captain Jack, I worked with Legends like Future and Shaft. It wasn&#8217;t long after I started working with this rich crowd that I started taking guys under my wing. I had a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe width="700" height="394" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/ArAr1AYW5gc?fs=1&feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-7935" title="Steve Mayeda" src="http://www.the21convention.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/steve-mayeda1-1024x600.jpg" alt="" width="290" height="169" /> About Steve Mayeda</p>
<p>Five time speaker of The 21 Convention</p>
<p>&#8220;I started training with gurus in the Pick Up community like Sinn and Captain Jack, I worked with Legends like Future and Shaft. It wasn&#8217;t long after I started working with this rich crowd that I started taking guys under my wing. I had a background in working with people throughout my past in more of a counseling capacity and I found out how gratifying it could be working with other men and teaching them these skills and taking them on a similar journey.</p>
<p>As soon as I started working with people, I realized that with my background and life experience I actually brought something completely different to the table. I was able to take the ideas, theories and structure of game and customize it to someone&#8217;s life. Before then game was determined upon actually building up a false façade of value to attract women. I was able to take guys who worked from a wide range of jobs that most people would assume to be unattractive and turn them into empowered men with the women that they wanted in their life.</p>
<p>Since then I have made it my journey to improve people&#8217;s lives through my teaching. I have surrounded myself with a group of fellow instructors that lend and offer the highest quality of service out there.&#8221;</p>
<p>In this bonus presentation Steve Mayeda discusses sales, business, and marketing.</p>
<ul>
<li>Visit Steve at <a href="http://www.TheRedMole.com/21" target="_blank">www.TheRedMole.com/21</a></li>
<li>Visit Steve at <a href="http://www.TheSexualLife.com" target="_blank">www.TheSexualLife.com</a></li>
<li>Follow Steve Mayeda on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/theMayeda" target="_blank">Facebook</a></li>
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		<title>The Sexual Life</title>
		<link>http://www.the21convention.com/2012/01/20/the-sexual-life/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jan 2012 20:14:47 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anthony Dream Johnson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[About Steve Mayeda Five time speaker of The 21 Convention &#8220;I started training with gurus in the Pick Up community like Sinn and Captain Jack, I worked with Legends like Future and Shaft. It wasn&#8217;t long after I started working with this rich crowd that I started taking guys under my wing. I had a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe width="700" height="394" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/7prGUmKCiaQ?fs=1&feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-7928" title="Steve Mayeda" src="http://www.the21convention.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/steve-mayeda-1024x632.jpg" alt="" width="275" height="170" />About Steve Mayeda</p>
<p>Five time speaker of The 21 Convention</p>
<p>&#8220;I started training with gurus in the Pick Up community like Sinn and Captain Jack, I worked with Legends like Future and Shaft. It wasn&#8217;t long after I started working with this rich crowd that I started taking guys under my wing. I had a background in working with people throughout my past in more of a counseling capacity and I found out how gratifying it could be working with other men and teaching them these skills and taking them on a similar journey.</p>
<p>As soon as I started working with people, I realized that with my background and life experience I actually brought something completely different to the table. I was able to take the ideas, theories and structure of game and customize it to someone&#8217;s life. Before then game was determined upon actually building up a false façade of value to attract women. I was able to take guys who worked from a wide range of jobs that most people would assume to be unattractive and turn them into empowered men with the women that they wanted in their life.</p>
<p>Since then I have made it my journey to improve people&#8217;s lives through my teaching. I have surrounded myself with a group of fellow instructors that lend and offer the highest quality of service out there.&#8221;</p>
<ul>
<li>Visit Steve at <a title="http://thesexuallife.com/21" dir="ltr" href="http://thesexuallife.com/21" rel="nofollow" target="_blank">http://TheSexualLife.com/21</a></li>
<li>Visit Steve at <a href="http://www.theredmole.com/" target="_blank">TheRedMole.com</a></li>
<li>Follow Steve Mayeda on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/theMayeda" target="_blank">Facebook</a></li>
</ul>
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		<title>The Formula for Confidence</title>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 13 Jan 2012 09:00:02 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anthony Dream Johnson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[About Robbie Kramer: In case you’re wondering, I’m not one of these self-proclaimed dating gurus. I’m just a silly, fun loving and relatively “normal” guy who wants to help you improve your dating life. The following quote was the story of my life about 6 years ago: “What is wrong with me, I see beautiful [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe width="700" height="394" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/ScfEV845QeY?fs=1&feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-7867" title="Robbie Kramer" src="http://www.the21convention.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/robbie-1024x682.jpg" alt="" width="294" height="196" />About Robbie Kramer:</p>
<p>In case you’re wondering, I’m not one of these self-proclaimed dating gurus. I’m just a silly, fun loving and relatively “normal” guy who wants to help you improve your dating life.</p>
<p>The following quote was the story of my life about 6 years ago:</p>
<p>“What is wrong with me, I see beautiful women all the time but I just can’t seem to go over and talk to them! And on the rare occasions when I do meet a woman I’m really into, I always find a way to screw it up!”</p>
<p>Before I learned that the study of attracting women existed, I was quick to jump into a relationship because I hated the single life. I had no idea how dating worked and the whole process felt uncomfortable and awkward.</p>
<p>Ironically, when I was in a relationship, I was often bored. When I was single, I often wanted to be in a relationship. “The grass was always greener.” I saw beautiful women all the time on campus, at the local bars, at the beach, and at the mall but I had no clue how to talk to them.</p>
<p>In 2005, I learned for the first time that there were people called “Pickup Artists” who could teach you how to meet women. I studied their material like a mad man to learn these elaborate methods, routines and systems they were teaching.</p>
<p>Sometimes, these tactics worked but it was overwhelming to try and remember all this “stuff.” When I approached a woman and got a negative reaction, I concluded that I must have screwed up the delivery of the line or routine…</p>
<p>So I would go home, beat myself up for doing poorly and invest more time and energy into studying. Meeting women suddenly became a chore and it stopped being fun.</p>
<p>In fact, I actually got worse!</p>
<p>I was stuck in my head and experiencing paralysis of analysis. It’s almost impossible to interact with people, let alone meet women, when you are stuck in your head. And it wasn’t that there was anything wrong with the material being taught by the pickup gurus. In fact, most of it was really good stuff. The only problem was that none of it was really the right fit for me. It just didn’t feel aligned with who I was.</p>
<p>My real breakthrough came in 2008 when I decided to shift my focus. Rather then focusing on trying to learn more techniques and tactics, I started to look for material that was in alignment with me. What happened was kinda funny. I found the most brilliant material ever! And I didn&#8217;t even have to go looking for it.</p>
<p>It was there all along, I just had to look inside. When I was in alignment and communicating with people from my truth, I felt much more confident and the women in my life started to notice. Women who had told me that they were “Only interested in being friends,” started showing signs of interest.</p>
<p>Ex girlfriends suddenly wanted to “hang out” again. Women I previously considered “Out of my league,” started hitting on me!</p>
<p>This may even sound corny, but when I actually started to admire and respect myself, women followed suit! As I built confidence, an abundance of women showed up in my life.</p>
<p>To make a long story short, I made rapid progress by focusing on building confidence… tested and refined the ideas and exercises into a formula… and put it all together.</p>
<p>At the end of the day, it feels amazing to know that I am in control of my life and have the power to create my ideal scenario with the fairer sex. If you are struggling, you probably know what it feels like to walk through life feeling powerless and out of control.</p>
<p>So why should you listen to me?</p>
<p>Well, you shouldn’t! I don’t claim to be a guru or to have all the answers. But I am very successful at helping others find the answers within themselves. Everything you need to know to create success is already somewhere deep inside of you. My job is to simply bring it to the surface, and help you have fun while doing it.</p>
<p>Life is too short to waste on things that aren’t fun!</p>
<p>So don’t just blindly listen to me, check in with yourself for the answer. Take what feels true for you and throw away the rest. To make the journey as simple as possible, I distilled the process of building unshakable confidence into a formula. I call it The Formula For Confidence (TM), make sure you grab a copy of my Free Content to learn more about it.</p>
<p>Both my profession and passion is helping men bring forth their own inner confidence and I hope to be of service to you!</p>
<p>Cheers,<br />
-Robbie</p>
<ul>
<li> Visit Robbie Kramer at <a href="http://innerconfidence.com/21" target="_blank">InnerConfidence.com/21</a></li>
<li>Follow Robbie on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/robbiekramer" target="_blank">Facebook</a></li>
<li>Follow Robbie on <a href="http://www.youtube.com/user/InnerConfidence" target="_blank">Youtube</a></li>
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		<title>Your Charisma Coach &#124; Marcus Oakey</title>
		<link>http://www.the21convention.com/2012/01/12/your-charisma-coach/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 12 Jan 2012 22:41:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anthony Dream Johnson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[About Marcus Oakey: &#8220;I never used to be what most people would call the ‘coolest’ or the most ’popular’ guy. I’m what you would call average in the looks department (slightly goofy to be honest) and I’m by no means rich (~bah!). Growing up, I only had a few close friends, even fewer girlfriends and [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe width="700" height="394" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/V8o3ZgakVPU?fs=1&feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-7856" title="Marcus Oakey" src="http://www.the21convention.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/marucs-1024x682.jpg" alt="" width="248" height="165" />About Marcus Oakey:</p>
<p>&#8220;I never used to be what most people would call the ‘coolest’ or the most ’popular’ guy. I’m what you would call average in the looks department (slightly goofy to be honest) and I’m by no means rich (~bah!).</p>
<p>Growing up, I only had a few close friends, even fewer girlfriends and only moderate success at work. A lot of nights I would be stuck at home alone. It’s not that I didn’t have anyone to go out with – more than anything I was scared to talk to people and socialise. Besides, I liked my own company.</p>
<p>But those few times when I did go out to try and meet new people, I would be nearly petrified and completely unable to talk to anybody, much less try and charm them.</p>
<p>In every other respect, I was a completely normal guy.</p>
<p>But I didn’t want to be normal; I wanted what I had spent my whole life dreaming about.</p>
<p>I wanted to be suave like Johnny Depp, charming like Hugh Grant, and smooth like George Clooney. I wanted to be a charismatic superstar.</p>
<p>With that goal in mind, I set out to learn everything there was to know about human psychology and charisma. I studied the most charismatic people I could find. I talked to psychologists, hypnotists, people who learnt behavioral mannerisms, body language experts and anyone else I thought could help me.</p>
<p>I spent years talking to everyone I saw and managed to make more mistakes and social gaffs then you can imagine. I tried every tactic, every affirmation, and every “secret” in my search for charisma.</p>
<p>In the end, this search paid off and I have accomplished more than I ever dreamed of. Though posters with my face don’t sell quite as well as the ones with Johnny Depp, I’ve learned and developed more than I thought possible.</p>
<p>Over the past five years I have dated some incredibly amazing girls, created many fantastic friendships that I will have for the rest of my life, and am constantly having to turn down invitations to awesome parties and activities because I am just too busy (and have a cellphone with a really dodgy battery – apologies if you tried calling…)</p>
<p>In addition, I have personally taught hundreds of people from all over the world the same methods that I used, to become charisma superstars. It has been such an honor and privilege to help introverts come out of their shells, and even people who already had a solid conversational foundation become even more charismatic.</p>
<p>Needless to say, these skills work just as well on the sales floor, in the office, or at the formal dinner – as they do in the bar, swimming pool or subway journey (where the real business gets done!)</p>
<p>I founded YourCharismaCoach.com because, deep down, I believe that each and every person has what it takes to be charismatic. With enough work and understanding, even the most introverted and unpopular person in the world can do exactly what I did – and transform into a master of charisma.</p>
<p>I’m 100% committed to each of my clients’ success and I sincerely hope that you find the information I provide here on this site to be helpful on your journey.</p>
<p>Sincerely,</p>
<p>Marcus Oakey&#8221;</p>
<ul>
<li>Visit Marcus at <a href="http://www.yourcharismacoach.com" target="_blank">YourCharismaCoach.com</a></li>
<li>Follow Marcus on <a href="https://www.facebook.com/YourCharismaCoach" target="_blank">Facebook</a></li>
<li>Follow Marcus on <a href="http://twitter.com/marcusoakey" target="_blank">Twitter</a></li>
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		<title>Surviving the Game</title>
		<link>http://www.the21convention.com/2012/01/05/surviving-the-game/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 05 Jan 2012 09:00:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anthony Dream Johnson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[About Frederik: Frederik has worked as a dating coach for both men and women since 2009. One of his central beliefs is that an initial flirt interaction projects the potential relationship in a nutshell. While a relationship will include all elements of the interaction, only the dose, timing and intensity of these elements will vary over time. [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe width="700" height="394" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/h3jgUuc6ADI?fs=1&feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><p><img class="alignleft  wp-image-7823" title="Frederik and Yoram" src="http://www.the21convention.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/frederik-and-yoram-1024x682.jpg" alt="" width="273" height="181" /><strong>About Frederik:</strong></p>
<p>Frederik has worked as a dating coach for both men and women since 2009. One of his central beliefs is that an initial flirt interaction projects <em>the potential </em>relationship in a nutshell. While a relationship will include all elements of the interaction, only the dose, timing and intensity of these elements will vary over time.</p>
<p>Consequently Frederik does not teach routines or speech patterns but rather helps people with finding, and enhancing, their attractive traits and learning to communicate those traits better.</p>
<p>Even though he has an enormous passion for coaching and experience as both a sports coach and university teacher, Frederik never aspired to be a dating coach but was asked to be one by the largest Dutch companies in 2009. He keeps developing his coaching skills by working with the best coaches in various fields and through his interest in NLP, hypnosis, psychology and human performance.</p>
<p>Frederik currently teaches on PUA Training bootcamps in Amsterdam, The Netherlands. You can get in touch with Frederik via</p>
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<li><strong>Facebook</strong>: <a href="http://www.facebook.com/frederik.satisfaction" target="_blank">http://www.facebook.com/frederik.satisfaction</a></li>
<li><strong>Twitter</strong>: <a href="http://www.twitter.com/realfrederik" target="_blank">http://www.twitter.com/realfrederik</a></li>
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<p>About <strong>Yoram</strong>:</p>
<p>Yoram has been working as a dating coach since 2009. He has worked for various pickup-companies ever since, including for PUATraining, The Netherlands.</p>
<p>Yoram prefers to teach practical, actionable takeaways on how to act, and after a while BECOME the &#8220;most sexually dangerous guy in the room.&#8221; He finds that combining that with connecting to people on deeper levels than they are perhaps even used to, or perhaps have always been looking for, is the essence of what enjoyable and worthy interactions between men and women are all about.</p>
<p>He believes in &#8220;shedding all the bullshit&#8221; as much as possible&#8230;both in conversations and in intentions. In his eyes &#8220;&#8230;There&#8217;s a diamond to be found under ever pile of shit&#8230;and in order to get to the diamond you have to have faith it is there to be found in the first place.</p>
<p>Then you also have to be able to recognize the diamonds, and especially recognizing pieces of shit that pretend to be diamonds&#8230;Because in the end life is all about getting the diamonds you find worthy of going through shit for.&#8221; This philosophy can be found back in his teachings and his talks.</p>
<p>You can get in contact with Yoram through various <a href="https://www.facebook.com/jfalkenburg" target="_blank">social media</a>.</p>
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		<title>The History &amp; Future of Money</title>
		<link>http://www.the21convention.com/2012/01/02/federal-reserve/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Jan 2012 22:14:26 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anthony Dream Johnson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[About Gary Korolev: Gary Korolev is a CFA (Chartered Financial Analyst) Charter holder. He graduated from the University of Florida with a Bachelor&#8217;s Degree in Finance in 2004. Prior to joining his current employer Gary worked in a Financial Advisory capacity at Morgan Stanley and Merrill Lynch. He is currently a Consultant on approximately $300 [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe width="700" height="394" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/8DhrbTzRs0c?fs=1&feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><p><img class=" wp-image-7807 alignleft" title="Gary Korolev" src="http://www.the21convention.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/gary-korolev-1024x627.jpg" alt="" width="273" height="166" />About Gary Korolev:</p>
<p>Gary Korolev is a CFA (Chartered Financial Analyst) Charter holder. He graduated from the University of Florida with a Bachelor&#8217;s Degree in Finance in 2004.</p>
<p>Prior to joining his current employer Gary worked in a Financial Advisory capacity at Morgan Stanley and Merrill Lynch. He is currently a Consultant on approximately $300 million worth of Private Client assets at a large, well reputed financial services firm which he wishes not to name because the views expressed in this video do not represent the views of his current employer.</p>
<p>Gary immigrated to the United States from Russia with his family in 1992 as a political refugee. His father was a publisher of an anticommunist newspaper in the Soviet Union prior to the fall of the Iron Curtain.</p>
<p>Gary is a proponent of the Austrian School of Economics of which the most widely known economists are Ludwig von Mises and Murray Rothbard. The Austrian School argues for a completely free market, and extremely limited government if any public government at all.</p>
<p>Gary finds credibility in <a href="http://mises.org/" target="_blank">the Austrian School</a> because despite being in the small minority of all economists, the Austrian Economists are credited more than any other with predicting the housing bubble and many other prior financial bubbles as well as explaining how government intervention in the economy, economic central planning and market manipulation by government enforced monopolies such as the <a href="http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8DhrbTzRs0c" target="_blank">Federal Reserve</a> end up causing more harm than good to the economy in the long run.</p>
<p>Gary may be contacted at gakorolev@gmail.com</p>
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		<title>Approach Anxiety, Qualification, Escalation</title>
		<link>http://www.the21convention.com/2011/12/30/approach-anxiety-qualification-escalation/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 30 Dec 2011 21:45:49 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Anthony Dream Johnson</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[Dharam, a master trainer at Pua Training, has always believed that there is one commodity you can never buy – time. The richest men spend their time wisely; therefore he believes in order to get rapid success you must take action without hesitation, this is what Dharam is all about – Action Without Hesitation. Having appeared on various media [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<iframe width="700" height="394" src="http://www.youtube.com/embed/PjA-tj_d4bo?fs=1&feature=oembed" frameborder="0" allowfullscreen></iframe><p><strong><img class="alignleft  wp-image-7775" title="Dharam" src="http://www.the21convention.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/12/dharam-1024x574.jpg" alt="" width="268" height="151" />Dharam</strong>, a master trainer at Pua Training, has always believed that there is one commodity you can never buy – time.</p>
<p>The richest men spend their time wisely; therefore he believes in order to get rapid success you must take action without hesitation, this is what Dharam is all about – Action Without Hesitation.</p>
<p>Having appeared on various media outlets throughout the world, more recently BBC Radio, there has been one key observation made and that is Dharam clearly enjoys what he does – you see in order to gain success in any area, you must first enjoy it – this is what Dharam’s work gravitates around – <em>once you begin to enjoy what you do success will follow</em>.</p>
<p>A quote that Dharam himself likes to lead his own life by is</p>
<p>&#8220;The traffic lights of life will never always be green, you see its not that the universe conspires against you, but nor will it set-up the pins for you to knock them down. If you keep saying ‘some day’ these will be nothing more than two words you take to the grave.’ So, I think it is time you started to create your own damn green lights…&#8221;</p>
<ul>
<li><a href="http://www.the21convention.com/2011/03/19/dharam-t21c-2010/" target="_blank">Watch Dharam at T21C 2010</a></li>
<li>Visit Dharam at <a href="http://www.puatraining.com/" target="_blank">PuaTraining.com</a></li>
<li>Download <a href="http://www.puatraining.com/puablog/2009/08/nice-guy-game-e-book/" target="_blank">Dharam&#8217;s free ebook</a></li>
</ul>
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