Dharam — a master trainer at Pua Training — has always believed that there is one commodity you can never buy – time. The richest men spend their time wisely; therefore he believes in order to get rapid success you must take action without hesitation, this is what Dharam is all about – Action Without Hesitation.
Having appeared on various media outlets throughout the world, more recently BBC Radio, there has been one key observation made and that is Dharam clearly enjoys what he does – You see in order to gain success in any area, you must first enjoy it – this is what Dharam’s work gravitates around – once you begin to enjoy what you do success will follow.
A quote that Dharam himself likes to lead his own life by is ‘The traffic lights of life will never always be green, you see its not that the universe conspires against you, but nor will it set-up the pins for you to knock them down. If you keep saying ‘some day’ these will be nothing more than two words you take to the grave.’ So, I think it is time you started to create your own damn green lights…
In this speech, Dharam discusses a variety of topics, including how to convert friends to girlfriends.
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Great speech by Dharam…PUA Training pulls through once again. These guys know there stuff.
Awesome! Not the topic I’m most interested in but I still learned LOADS! I’ve been waiting about a year for something new from Dharam. Keep it up, love you’re style!
Dharam wasted everyone’s time with this lecture.
I disagree. To be honest, and based on your previous comment that I deleted, you sound like someone who tried to convert a friend to a girlfriend, got burnt pretty hard, and as a result, hate the truth of Dharam’s experience, and speech.
It’s amazing how similar in content this is to Heartwork’s 2009 Speech and how different in tone.
Being sober tends to have that effect.
That’s not really what I meant… but the comparison remains valid I suppose.
I know. I meant it as a joke lol. Although, it also reflects reality. Should have added a wink or something. And off the top of my head, I do think the content is similar.
Thanks for the informative talk! Lots of good stuff, however I wonder if anyone else defines “friend zone” differently that which is portrayed in the speech? This seems more of a story of a girl that was throwing out IOI’s and was interested but he kept tripping over himself (again, need to know info).
I’m interested in learning more about how you get a girl in your “group” that you see socially with others to start calling you and bring you to her room and just turn on the lava light, not convert someone that is already interested…
In your story the girl always knew that you fancied her from an early stage and I can’t help but think that the subsequent reversal of roles with her chasing you depended on her knowing that – once your attitude changed and you were no longer running after her, combined with seeing other girls, she became concerned she missed her chance with her which I believe was the key in her wanting you to get with her.
Had you always only been in the friend zone how would you have gone about it so that the opportunity to physically escalate didn’t seem out of the blue and more importantly so that physically escalating wasn’t off limits completely?