Its time again for yet another review. This time we are going to be looking at a video product put out by The Social Man titled “Unbreakable”. It feature Christian Hudson and Nick Sparks. I’ve met both of these guys in person, and just saw Nick again recently at The 21 Convention in Orlando. In an industry filled with weirdos and charlatans, Nick and Christian have always been friendly guys. So I was happy when we decided to do this review.
A lot of the things taught in the community are really technique based. When we stray away from that strong base of “What to say, when to say it, how to say it” area of the community, there is the inner game camp. This gets even more complicated, and I hesitate to group them all under one funny umbrella as before.
This product seems to find a nice middle ground. There are techniques, but rather than a ton of lines, there is a structure taught to conversation. This is pretty much what I like most about the product. They try to give you an in depth understanding of why game works, and the way it works. This approach fits much more with where I am at right now in my game, so I appreciate it.
This is also one of the few products that takes time to address your real life. They call it “Passive Value”, but they are right. There is something more subtle going on during the entire video series that really does help to set this work apart. It doesn’t take the approach of tricking women into bed. Not that they don’t show some tricks. To often in the community guys view women as unattainable beings. This often seeps into products. Chris and Nick don’t follow that line of thought, and its good to see.
They believe women want to be approached by men. That they want our time, affection, and (dare I say it) sex. This is exactly the attitude adjustment that most people in “the Community” need. Its good to see instructors that understand this idea and put it out there.
The series has twelve videos in all, and covers The Social Man’s version of game. This means no focus on routines, and very little in the way of tricks and tactics. Instead you are shown ways to generate connection. There are no opinion openers or magic words in this product, so don’t expect that. Instead you can expect them to lay out how social interactions work. After word they usually follow up by explaining how concepts can be used.
I like the approach a lot, though its not necessarily what guys want. In my experience understanding the underlying concepts is far more important than just throwing out the right line at the right time. They do a lot to really avoid the strange and or creepy stuff that gets thrown around a lot. I hesitate to show some of the things I review to my often mentioned girlfriend. However, if this product helped you find Ms. Right, you could show it to her without her running for the hills.
For a more in depth and extensive look at Unbreakable, you can always check their site. As far as video series go, this has been my favorite so far. It does stand a chance to overload the students a bit, but I think the new angle may help quite a bit more of them.
If you are looking for a new product and have been in the community for a while, try this one. It takes a different line, and may be exactly what you need to find the success that has been alluding you.
As a final Review. 4.5 Stars out of Five.
-Dodger Clemons
