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	<title>Comments on: Standards: Finding a Keeper</title>
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		<title>By: Dan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 22:12:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Thanks man</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Thanks man</p>
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		<title>By: hshudo</title>
		<link>http://www.the21convention.com/2009/11/06/standards-finding-a-keeper/comment-page-1/#comment-1179</link>
		<dc:creator>hshudo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 20:19:46 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>typing with my thumbs.     Before hand, I present myslef as a player. I might mention another date I was on. Tell her I don_t like exclusive relationships. Find Libido&#039;s 2007 speech on the site. He goes into the topic.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>typing with my thumbs.     Before hand, I present myslef as a player. I might mention another date I was on. Tell her I don_t like exclusive relationships. Find Libido&#8217;s 2007 speech on the site. He goes into the topic.</p>
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		<title>By: Dan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 16:06:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>&#039;I never ever lead her to expect anything more than a single one night stand from me.&#039;

Can you elaborate on this?

Besides telling her directly after sex, what do you do before hand to hint that you only want a one night stand?

Thanks!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8216;I never ever lead her to expect anything more than a single one night stand from me.&#8217;</p>
<p>Can you elaborate on this?</p>
<p>Besides telling her directly after sex, what do you do before hand to hint that you only want a one night stand?</p>
<p>Thanks!</p>
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		<title>By: Dodger/Hshudo</title>
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		<dc:creator>Dodger/Hshudo</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 15:22:07 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>If she doesn&#039;t meet my standards then I don&#039;t date her. Plain and simple. 

I might fuck her, but no relationship. Also, I am very honest with women. After sex, when we are in bed, I tell her exactly what I want. Whether thats a fuck buddy or whatever. 

I don&#039;t buy into the fact that there is no perfect girl. If there is, then I will find her. If there is not, then I am perfectly happy to be single. 

Currently I have a girlfriend that meets all of my requirements. 

I don&#039;t ditch a girl for simple mistakes though. Some minor character flaws are easily correctable. 


The way i avoid any sort of messy anger on her part is simple. I never ever lead her to expect anything more than a single one night stand from me. Once I realize she might be worth more than that, then I let her think I may last longer.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>If she doesn&#8217;t meet my standards then I don&#8217;t date her. Plain and simple. </p>
<p>I might fuck her, but no relationship. Also, I am very honest with women. After sex, when we are in bed, I tell her exactly what I want. Whether thats a fuck buddy or whatever. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t buy into the fact that there is no perfect girl. If there is, then I will find her. If there is not, then I am perfectly happy to be single. </p>
<p>Currently I have a girlfriend that meets all of my requirements. </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t ditch a girl for simple mistakes though. Some minor character flaws are easily correctable. </p>
<p>The way i avoid any sort of messy anger on her part is simple. I never ever lead her to expect anything more than a single one night stand from me. Once I realize she might be worth more than that, then I let her think I may last longer.</p>
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		<title>By: Michal</title>
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		<dc:creator>Michal</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 09 Feb 2010 06:22:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I definitely see your point, but what do you do when you find she does not meet your standards. Do you ever compromise ( other than just meeting someone as a one night stand ) ? 

I don&#039;t understand how exactly one makes sure to be respectful and non-deceitful properly. That&#039;s because it often may take some for you to know whether a woman is your type ( fits your standards) . And in the mean time you are making a decision in your mind:

1)  understanding that the perfect match is not out there, but that you can get really close if you try 

2) and understanding that research shows people are psychologically wired to &#039;get used to&#039; what they have and not &#039;feel bad&#039; with their choices 

3) without treating people like crap. 


That last part is tough. Maybe it has just been who I have been attracted  to, but most women I meet want to be in it for the long haul ( LTR ) . This is making it hard to convince myself that the MLTR is possible without being a real dick to women.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I definitely see your point, but what do you do when you find she does not meet your standards. Do you ever compromise ( other than just meeting someone as a one night stand ) ? </p>
<p>I don&#8217;t understand how exactly one makes sure to be respectful and non-deceitful properly. That&#8217;s because it often may take some for you to know whether a woman is your type ( fits your standards) . And in the mean time you are making a decision in your mind:</p>
<p>1)  understanding that the perfect match is not out there, but that you can get really close if you try </p>
<p>2) and understanding that research shows people are psychologically wired to &#8216;get used to&#8217; what they have and not &#8216;feel bad&#8217; with their choices </p>
<p>3) without treating people like crap. </p>
<p>That last part is tough. Maybe it has just been who I have been attracted  to, but most women I meet want to be in it for the long haul ( LTR ) . This is making it hard to convince myself that the MLTR is possible without being a real dick to women.</p>
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