Introducing Dharam of PuaTraining: Opener Video
Posted on 02. Oct, 2009 by Anthony 'Dream' Johnson in Videos
Hey guys
I usually only allow past convention speakers to post content on the site, but I am allowing an exception for Dharam.
Dharam is a trainer for Pua Training (the company Adam Lyons and Psych work with). I have spoken with him for many months now, and if it was not for a scheduling issue on our end, he would have been present at the 2009 US event as an official speaker.
With that said, the specific reason I am allowing Dharam to post content to the site is because he is a confirmed speaker for 2010- and I want everyone to have an idea of who he is before the event- a unique bonus of the site’s current format.
Anyway, check the video out in it’s entirety… I think you’ll be surprised 
enjoy
-Dream
ps- Dharam will be checking in here on T21C, so if you have comments or questions, fire away!
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Hi man, I don’t see any signs of attaction so I’m wondering§: does your day game consist in getting her phone number totally “under the radar” and THEN create attraction and escalate on the second time you hook up?
Thanks
Hi Nat,
This particular approach consisted of an indirect opener, from here I saw it as I had two options:
1) drop in a statement of intent
2) I didn’t go for the statement of intent as I felt I had enough comfort to arrange a day two in set (which was the Italian restaurant, although obviously I’ll change plans later as don’t want to necessairly go to a restaurant she use to work at or a restaurant im general depending on how I feel) and there I could escalate
thanks for the comment, I hope this addresses your question and please do feel free to leave an opener for me to try out.
Stay kool and keep gaming.
Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam
Hey I just left a reply, although cannot see it, let us know Nat and if you can’t see it I’ll re-post
Sup Dharam
I just came up with a new type of opener, I call it The DLV (Demonstration of Lover Value) Opener, but its a DLV for HER.
In addition of being fun & playful, it shows that you have Higher Value by making fun of whatever her answer is (which creates attraction cause it shows that you have the balls to make fun of her).
For more understanding, this is how it goes:
1) Approach the girl and ask THE MOST RANDOM THINK but without getting out of the line
- Has to be a question about something real and believable
- Has to have at least A LITTLE BIT OF CONGRUENCE with whatever the scenario you have with the girl
2) After she answers (whatever it is), just look at her weirdily and make fun of what she said with something like:
“Of course I didn’t want to know that! (and laugh) so wasup?”
or
“I can’t believe you just answered that (laught) Yeah, I was just only messing with you. Wasup?”
3) Don’t forget (after you make fun of her) to just say really cool and chill: “So wasup?”
- The more relaxed and confident you sound when you say it, the better -
EXAMPLE:
*In the Mall*
PUA: Hey excuse me, (somethin totally random *its better if its stupid/playful) did you just eat a two cheese burgers from Mcdonalds?
Her: (laughs) Nooo of course I didn’t!
PUA: OMG look at your face! Yes you did!
Her: (laughs) ooh nooo of course I didn’t!
PUA: (totally serious now) I really can’t believe you just answer that question. (laugh) So wasup!
Her: (laughs) Oh nothin just doin some shoppin with…………
*The rest is up to you. Its our world.
P.S. I just came up with this like two days ago, so I haven’t really had time to practice (although this weekend Im gonna make sure I will haha). The first time I tried it, it got me a really good laugh and a kino punch.
Let me know about the results.
¡Salud!
T
LOL
Its “The DLV Opener” (Demonstration of LOWER Value, not Lover*) lol
yeah, I get pretty fuckin romantic sometimes.
¡Salud!
Dharam is legit. I love this guys energy. If you see his other videos nothing phases him. Good to see him posting up footage of him too unlike other “gurus” who refused to be filmed
Hi guys,
Thank you for the responses they are really appreciated.
NAT: My style is very ‘end-result’ focused, and my end-result of the interaction was exactly what I was looking for – as under-the-radar as this approach was, I managed both a number close and a day two arranged. And yes you’re absolutely right, on that date I will be escalating hard
T: Thank you for the opener suggestion I like the creativity, will try and do this, also let us know how it goes when you go out and try it.
KAOSMAN: Thank you for the kind words, they are really appreciated and it really is an honour to be able to post on this forum with a lot of other great guys. Thanks for checking out my You Tube videos, I will post links to them here, as the weeks go on so keep a look out for them
Please keep the suggestions for openers coming guys, I look forward to reading them and even more so, trying them out.
Stay kool and keep gaming.
Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam
Hey, this set reminds me a lot of a girl I opened as well. It basically went like yours did, except for about 20 minutes. Anyway, the number was a flake, as I knew it was going to be. So I’m getting the feeling that the number the Italian chick gave you was a flake as well (as in, she doesn’t pick up the phone when you call). Was it? If not, how far have you taken the interaction (kissing, sex, etc.)?
Thanks
Hi GA,
Thanks for the comment. In all honesty I tell all women I am filming after the set in order to get there consent, the number was real and she said she would have picked up if I called to arrange the date at the Italian restuarant.
I am working on a video with two identical sets in terms of opener, transition and close, although one was a flake and one wasn’t and I am going to demonstrate exactly why. However, this won’t be out for a few weeks and got a video I want to put up prior to that on this site so loads happening – Watch This Space
Please keep suggesting openers guys, they are really appreciated
Many thanks.
Stay kool and keep gaming.
Your Friendly, Neighbourhood PUA Dharam
Thanks Dharam. Looking forward to your videos.
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